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AI girlfriend sites side by side · Both tested first-hand · Data through September 2026

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JOI vs SpicyChat

I bought a membership on both and tested each for a month. What they offer, their measured numbers and what their users say, next to each other, with my verdict on each at the end.

The scoreboard

SpicyChat leads on 3 of the 4 figures that decide most choices.

JOI logoSpicyChat logo
Rank on this site#19▲#15
Google US, “ai girlfriend”––
Search visits a month34.0K▲2.4M
Name searches a month, US33.1K▲1.0M

In short

SpicyChat is the bigger site; here is what separates them.

  • SpicyChat gets about 2,411,388 search visits a month worldwide against 34,016 for JOI, roughly 71 times as many (DataForSEO, September 2026).
  • People search for SpicyChat by name about 1,000,000 times a month in the US, against 33,100 for JOI.
  • JOI has no free tier and starts at $13.99/mo; SpicyChat has a free tier and paid plans from $4.95/mo.
  • SpicyChat allows adult content on paid plans; JOI filters or limits it.

What they offer

What they offer
What they offerJOISpicyChat
Free tierNo▲Yes
Entry paid plan$13.99/mo$4.95/mo
Adult contentFiltered or limitedAllowed on paid plans
Features
  • AI girlfriend chat
  • Image generation
  • Flexible pricing tiers
  • Emotionally expressive AI chat
  • NSFW content
  • Character customization
  • Flexible pricing tiers
Best forUsers seeking image generation and AI companion features at a budget-friendly price pointBudget-conscious users who want quality AI conversation and NSFW chat at the lowest possible price
Not forUsers who need extensive community resources or detailed feature documentation before committingAnyone who wants voice interaction, image generation, or cross-session memory
OperatorJOI AI (as the site's footer puts it); one third-party review names JOI-AI Limited, a UK-registered company, which the site itself does not confirmNextDay AI
Pricing notes1 Month: $13.99. 3 Months: $20.99 (~$7/mo). 12 Months: $47.99 (~$4/mo). Premium adds image generation and a limited video generation allowance (5 free clips/month, extra via Neurons).Named monthly tiers: Get A Taste ~$4.95-$5/mo, True Supporter ~$14/mo, I'm All In ~$24/mo, with roughly 17% off if billed annually.

My take

If you want to try before you pay, SpicyChat lets you: JOI asks for a card first. A free tier is a sampler, not a plan, but it tells you whether the chat suits you before money moves. SpicyChat is the cheaper way in at $4.95/mo against $13.99/mo for JOI. The entry price is only part of it: image, voice and video are often metered on top, so the pricing notes row matters as much as the headline. On adult content they are not the same product: SpicyChat allows it on paid plans, JOI keeps a filter. Decide that first and half the comparison decides itself.

The numbers

The numbers
The numbersJOISpicyChat
Rank on this siteOn the combined data gathered for every site#19▲#15
Google US rank, “ai girlfriend”DataForSEO ranked keywords, September 2026––
Tranco rank, all domainsAll-traffic rank among the top million domains#31,348▲#6,952
Chrome UX tierGoogle Chrome UX ReportTop 50,000▲Top 5,000
Search visits a month, worldwideDataForSEO estimate34,016▲2,411,388
Search visits a month, US12,053▲677,277
Brand searches a month, USGoogle Ads data via DataForSEO33,100▲1,000,000
Domain RatingDomain Rating by Ahrefs, out of 10064▲72
Referring domains2,966▲4,131
Backlinks62,387▲913,423
Domain registeredJuly 2003May 2023
Public record I read10 videos, 1 Reddit threads, 6 articles11 videos, 9 Reddit threads, 4 articles

The better value in each row is marked in green. Search visits and brand searches are DataForSEO estimates; Tranco and Chrome UX tiers are ranks, not visit counts.

My take

None of these ranks in the tracked positions for "ai girlfriend", so their places on this site come from all-traffic rank, and their visitors arrive by name, by ads or from app stores rather than from the category search. On size, SpicyChat is the busier site: 2,411,388 search visits a month worldwide, more than 70 times what JOI gets (34,016). These are estimates of visits from Google only, so a site with apps or ads can be bigger than this shows. Brand searches are the loyalty line: 1,000,000 people a month type SpicyChat's name, against 33,100 for JOI. A name people type on purpose is a site they come back to; a site with lots of visits and few brand searches is living on rankings it could lose. JOI is the older domain (2003 against 2023), which counts for something in a category where sites close without notice.

What users say, and what I found

Feature by feature
Feature by featureJOISpicyChat
Chat and roleplayUsers mixedMy test: AgreeUsers positiveMy test: Agree
Model switchingUsers positiveMy test: Agree–
MemoryUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagree–
Images and Dream ClipsUsers mixedMy test: Agree–
VoiceUsers mixedMy test: Disagree–
Characters and customisationUsers positiveMy test: Agree–
Free tierUsers negativeMy test: Agree–
Price and neuronsUsers negativeMy test: Agree–
Privacy and billingUsers mixedMy test: DisagreeUsers mixedMy test: Agree
Safety and legitimacyUsers mixed–
Memory and lorebooks–Users mixedMy test: Partly disagree
Models–Users mixedMy test: Agree
Images and voice–Users negativeMy test: Disagree
Characters and the creator community–Users positiveMy test: Agree
Free tier and queues–Users positiveMy test: Agree
Price and no tokens–Users positiveMy test: Agree
Age verification and filters–Users mixedMy test: Agree
Support and moderation–Users positiveMy test: Agree

“Users” is the balance of the YouTube reviews, Reddit threads and articles read for each brand page; “my test” is whether my own month on the site agreed with them.

My take

Users are happier with SpicyChat: 5 of its 10 features come out positive, against JOI's 2 of 10, with 2 features where the complaints win. SpicyChat gets it on chat and roleplay. My own month did not always match the crowd: I disagreed with users on 3 points for JOI and 2 points for SpicyChat, and each disagreement is spelled out on the brand page.

My verdict on each

JOI logo

JOI

#19 on the ranking

Joi is the loudest newcomer in the category, and after a month with it the product is better than the marketing deserves.

Read my full JOI analysis →
SpicyChat logo

SpicyChat

#15 on the ranking

SpicyChat is the free, no-tokens roleplay site, and a month with it convinced me that is enough to be second in the category.

Read my full SpicyChat analysis →

Written by Hunter Gray, Founder, Owner & Writer. Every figure is from the two brand pages and refreshes monthly. JOI and SpicyChat are two of the sites in my best AI girlfriend ranking, where the whole category is ordered on the same data.