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AI girlfriend sites side by side · Both tested first-hand · Data through September 2026

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Nomi.ai vs JOI

I bought a membership on both and tested each for a month. What they offer, their measured numbers and what their users say, next to each other, with my verdict on each at the end.

The scoreboard

Nomi.ai leads on 2 of the 4 figures that decide most choices.

Nomi.ai logoJOI logo
Rank on this site▲#4#19
Google US, “ai girlfriend”#9–
Search visits a month▲50.0K34.0K
Name searches a month, US33.1K33.1K

In short

Two sites of similar size; here is what separates them.

  • Nomi.ai ranks #9 in United States Google results for "ai girlfriend"; JOI holds no tracked position for it, so it is placed by all-traffic rank instead (#4 against #19 on this site).
  • Nomi.ai gets about 50,007 search visits a month worldwide against 34,016 for JOI (DataForSEO, September 2026).
  • Nomi.ai has a free tier and paid plans from Free; JOI has no free tier and starts at $13.99/mo.

What they offer

What they offer
What they offerNomi.aiJOI
Free tier▲YesNo
Entry paid planFree$13.99/mo
Adult contentFiltered or limitedFiltered or limited
Features
  • Deep long-term memory across all conversations
  • High emotional intelligence and empathy
  • Relationship continuity over time
  • Mood-adaptive communication style
  • AI girlfriend chat
  • Image generation
  • Flexible pricing tiers
Best forUsers who want a genuinely emotionally intelligent AI companion with real persistent memoryUsers seeking image generation and AI companion features at a budget-friendly price point
Not forUsers primarily seeking robust image generation, a mobile app, or explicit NSFW contentUsers who need extensive community resources or detailed feature documentation before committing
OperatorGlimpse.ai, Inc. (a Maryland corporation; named in the Nomi.ai terms of service and privacy policy)JOI AI (as the site's footer puts it); one third-party review names JOI-AI Limited, a UK-registered company, which the site itself does not confirm
Pricing notesFree tier with limited daily messages and one companion. Paid plans from $15.99/month ($39.99/quarter, $99.99/year). Video generation billed separately via credits. Browser-based access.1 Month: $13.99. 3 Months: $20.99 (~$7/mo). 12 Months: $47.99 (~$4/mo). Premium adds image generation and a limited video generation allowance (5 free clips/month, extra via Neurons).

My take

If you want to try before you pay, Nomi.ai lets you: JOI asks for a card first. A free tier is a sampler, not a plan, but it tells you whether the chat suits you before money moves.

The numbers

The numbers
The numbersNomi.aiJOI
Rank on this siteOn the combined data gathered for every site▲#4#19
Google US rank, “ai girlfriend”DataForSEO ranked keywords, September 2026#9–
Tranco rank, all domainsAll-traffic rank among the top million domains#131,225▲#31,348
Chrome UX tierGoogle Chrome UX ReportTop 500,000▲Top 50,000
Search visits a month, worldwideDataForSEO estimate▲50,00734,016
Search visits a month, US▲12,25612,053
Brand searches a month, USGoogle Ads data via DataForSEO33,10033,100
Domain RatingDomain Rating by Ahrefs, out of 100▲6564
Referring domains2,161▲2,966
Backlinks19,261▲62,387
Domain registeredNovember 2020July 2003
Public record I read15 videos, 8 Reddit threads, 3 articles10 videos, 1 Reddit threads, 6 articles

The better value in each row is marked in green. Search visits and brand searches are DataForSEO estimates; Tranco and Chrome UX tiers are ranks, not visit counts.

My take

Start with the row this site ranks on. When someone types "ai girlfriend" into Google in the US, Nomi.ai is there at #9; JOI does not appear in the tracked positions at all. That is why Nomi.ai sits higher here even if it is the smaller site: it is the one the category sends newcomers to. On size, Nomi.ai is the busier site: 50,007 search visits a month worldwide, about half as much again what JOI gets (34,016). These are estimates of visits from Google only, so a site with apps or ads can be bigger than this shows. Tranco tells a slightly different story: it counts every visit, not only search, and there JOI comes out ahead (#31,348 against #131,225). When search and all-traffic disagree, the site that wins on Tranco has an audience that does not come through Google. JOI is the older domain (2003 against 2020), which counts for something in a category where sites close without notice. In plain terms: Nomi.ai is both the bigger site and the one the category search points to.

What users say, and what I found

Feature by feature
Feature by featureNomi.aiJOI
Chat and roleplayUsers positiveMy test: AgreeUsers mixedMy test: Agree
MemoryUsers positiveMy test: AgreeUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagree
Group chats and multiple NomisUsers positiveMy test: Agree–
Selfies and artUsers mixedMy test: Agree–
VoiceUsers mixedMy test: AgreeUsers mixedMy test: Disagree
Free tierUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagreeUsers negativeMy test: Agree
Price and planUsers positiveMy test: Agree–
Content freedom and moderationUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagree–
Privacy and dataUsers positiveMy test: Agree–
Developer trust and update paceUsers mixedMy test: Agree–
Model switching–Users positiveMy test: Agree
Images and Dream Clips–Users mixedMy test: Agree
Characters and customisation–Users positiveMy test: Agree
Price and neurons–Users negativeMy test: Agree
Privacy and billing–Users mixedMy test: Disagree
Safety and legitimacy–Users mixed

“Users” is the balance of the YouTube reviews, Reddit threads and articles read for each brand page; “my test” is whether my own month on the site agreed with them.

My take

Users are happier with Nomi.ai: 5 of its 10 features come out positive, against JOI's 2 of 10, with 2 features where the complaints win. Where they split, Nomi.ai gets the better word on chat and roleplay and memory. My own month did not always match the crowd: I disagreed with users on 2 points for Nomi.ai and 3 points for JOI, and each disagreement is spelled out on the brand page.

My verdict on each

Nomi.ai logo

Nomi.ai

#4 on the ranking

Nomi is the companion app for people who want to be remembered, and after a month with it I rank its memory above anything else I have tested.

Read my full Nomi.ai analysis →
JOI logo

JOI

#19 on the ranking

Joi is the loudest newcomer in the category, and after a month with it the product is better than the marketing deserves.

Read my full JOI analysis →

Written by Hunter Gray, Founder, Owner & Writer. Every figure is from the two brand pages and refreshes monthly. Nomi.ai and JOI are two of the sites in my best AI girlfriend ranking, where the whole category is ordered on the same data.