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AI girlfriend sites side by side · Both tested first-hand · Data through September 2026

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Nectar.ai vs JOI

I bought a membership on both and tested each for a month. What they offer, their measured numbers and what their users say, next to each other, with my verdict on each at the end.

The scoreboard

JOI leads on 3 of the 4 figures that decide most choices.

Nectar.ai logoJOI logo
Rank on this site#40▲#19
Google US, “ai girlfriend”––
Search visits a month29.2K▲34.0K
Name searches a month, US18.1K▲33.1K

In short

Two sites of similar size; here is what separates them.

  • JOI gets about 34,016 search visits a month worldwide against 29,223 for Nectar.ai (DataForSEO, September 2026).
  • People search for JOI by name about 33,100 times a month in the US, against 18,100 for Nectar.ai.
  • Nectar.ai has a free tier and paid plans from Free; JOI has no free tier and starts at $13.99/mo.
  • Nectar.ai allows adult content on paid plans; JOI filters or limits it.

What they offer

What they offer
What they offerNectar.aiJOI
Free tier▲YesNo
Entry paid planFree$13.99/mo
Adult contentAllowed on paid plansFiltered or limited
Features
  • Sweet affectionate companion with full NSFW capability
  • Cross-session memory
  • AI image generation
  • Cryptocurrency payments
  • AI girlfriend chat
  • Image generation
  • Flexible pricing tiers
Best forUsers wanting a warm companion personality alongside full adult content and payment privacy via cryptoUsers seeking image generation and AI companion features at a budget-friendly price point
Not forUsers needing voice calls, a mobile app, or top-tier image qualityUsers who need extensive community resources or detailed feature documentation before committing
OperatorLick Labs Ltd (London) and Nectar AI (Dover, Delaware), per the site's terms; founded by Keccak and Zi, who met at StanfordJOI AI (as the site's footer puts it); one third-party review names JOI-AI Limited, a UK-registered company, which the site itself does not confirm
Pricing notesA free tier now exists, alongside Premium ($9.99/mo), Pro ($19.99/mo), and Ultimate ($34.99/mo) tiers, replacing the flat $10.99/month this review originally tested. Video generation is gated to the Ultimate tier. Browser-based. Accepts cryptocurrency.1 Month: $13.99. 3 Months: $20.99 (~$7/mo). 12 Months: $47.99 (~$4/mo). Premium adds image generation and a limited video generation allowance (5 free clips/month, extra via Neurons).

My take

If you want to try before you pay, Nectar.ai lets you: JOI asks for a card first. A free tier is a sampler, not a plan, but it tells you whether the chat suits you before money moves. On adult content they are not the same product: Nectar.ai allows it on paid plans, JOI keeps a filter. Decide that first and half the comparison decides itself.

The numbers

The numbers
The numbersNectar.aiJOI
Rank on this siteOn the combined data gathered for every site#40▲#19
Google US rank, “ai girlfriend”DataForSEO ranked keywords, September 2026––
Tranco rank, all domainsAll-traffic rank among the top million domains#313,017▲#31,348
Chrome UX tierGoogle Chrome UX ReportTop 500,000▲Top 50,000
Search visits a month, worldwideDataForSEO estimate29,223▲34,016
Search visits a month, US709▲12,053
Brand searches a month, USGoogle Ads data via DataForSEO18,100▲33,100
Domain RatingDomain Rating by Ahrefs, out of 10055▲64
Referring domains1,582▲2,966
Backlinks13,593▲62,387
Domain registeredDecember 2017July 2003
Public record I read5 videos, 2 Reddit threads, 1 articles10 videos, 1 Reddit threads, 6 articles

The better value in each row is marked in green. Search visits and brand searches are DataForSEO estimates; Tranco and Chrome UX tiers are ranks, not visit counts.

My take

None of these ranks in the tracked positions for "ai girlfriend", so their places on this site come from all-traffic rank, and their visitors arrive by name, by ads or from app stores rather than from the category search. On size, JOI is the busier site: 34,016 search visits a month worldwide, about the same as Nectar.ai gets (29,223). These are estimates of visits from Google only, so a site with apps or ads can be bigger than this shows. Brand searches are the loyalty line: 33,100 people a month type JOI's name, against 18,100 for Nectar.ai. A name people type on purpose is a site they come back to; a site with lots of visits and few brand searches is living on rankings it could lose. JOI is the older domain (2003 against 2017), which counts for something in a category where sites close without notice.

What users say, and what I found

Feature by feature
Feature by featureNectar.aiJOI
Chat and roleplayUsers positiveMy test: AgreeUsers mixedMy test: Agree
MemoryUsers mixedMy test: AgreeUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagree
Image generationUsers positiveMy test: Disagree–
Voice and videoUsers mixedMy test: Agree–
Characters and customisationUsers positiveMy test: AgreeUsers positiveMy test: Agree
Free tierUsers negativeMy test: AgreeUsers negativeMy test: Agree
Price and creditsUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagree–
Privacy and billingUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagreeUsers mixedMy test: Disagree
Marketing and trustUsers negativeMy test: Agree–
Safety and legitimacyUsers positiveMy test: AgreeUsers mixed
Model switching–Users positiveMy test: Agree
Images and Dream Clips–Users mixedMy test: Agree
Voice–Users mixedMy test: Disagree
Price and neurons–Users negativeMy test: Agree

“Users” is the balance of the YouTube reviews, Reddit threads and articles read for each brand page; “my test” is whether my own month on the site agreed with them.

My take

Users are happier with Nectar.ai: 4 of its 10 features come out positive, against JOI's 2 of 10, with 2 features where the complaints win. Where they split, Nectar.ai gets the better word on chat and roleplay and safety and legitimacy. Both get the same complaint on free tier, so that is a category problem rather than a reason to pick one over the other. My own month did not always match the crowd: I disagreed with users on 3 points for Nectar.ai and 3 points for JOI, and each disagreement is spelled out on the brand page.

My verdict on each

Nectar.ai logo

Nectar.ai

#40 on the ranking

Nectar is the best character builder in its price band, run by a real company, and after a month with it I would still pay the annual plan.

Read my full Nectar.ai analysis →
JOI logo

JOI

#19 on the ranking

Joi is the loudest newcomer in the category, and after a month with it the product is better than the marketing deserves.

Read my full JOI analysis →

Written by Hunter Gray, Founder, Owner & Writer. Every figure is from the two brand pages and refreshes monthly. Nectar.ai and JOI are two of the sites in my best AI girlfriend ranking, where the whole category is ordered on the same data.