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AI girlfriend sites side by side · Both tested first-hand · Data through September 2026

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JOI vs OurDream.ai

I bought a membership on both and tested each for a month. What they offer, their measured numbers and what their users say, next to each other, with my verdict on each at the end.

The scoreboard

OurDream.ai leads on 3 of the 4 figures that decide most choices.

JOI logoOurDream.ai logo
Rank on this site#19▲#16
Google US, “ai girlfriend”––
Search visits a month34.0K▲301K
Name searches a month, US33.1K▲301K

In short

OurDream.ai is the bigger site; here is what separates them.

  • OurDream.ai gets about 301,181 search visits a month worldwide against 34,016 for JOI, roughly 8.9 times as many (DataForSEO, September 2026).
  • People search for OurDream.ai by name about 301,000 times a month in the US, against 33,100 for JOI.
  • JOI has no free tier and starts at $13.99/mo; OurDream.ai has no free tier and starts at $19.99/mo.
  • OurDream.ai allows adult content on paid plans; JOI filters or limits it.

What they offer

What they offer
What they offerJOIOurDream.ai
Free tierNoNo
Entry paid plan$13.99/mo$19.99/mo
Adult contentFiltered or limitedAllowed on paid plans
Features
  • AI girlfriend chat
  • Image generation
  • Flexible pricing tiers
  • NSFW chat
  • NSFW image generation
  • Seductive voice messages
  • Anime and realistic styles
  • Character customization
  • Browser-based (no app needed)
  • Discord community
Best forUsers seeking image generation and AI companion features at a budget-friendly price pointUsers wanting seductive voice messages, high-quality NSFW images and chat, and both anime and realistic styles via browser without login gates
Not forUsers who need extensive community resources or detailed feature documentation before committingThose needing live voice or video calls, crypto billing, or a free trial
OperatorJOI AI (as the site's footer puts it); one third-party review names JOI-AI Limited, a UK-registered company, which the site itself does not confirmDream Studio USA, Inc. and TEKTOPIA LTD (Cyprus); the iOS app is published by Mindbots LLC
Pricing notes1 Month: $13.99. 3 Months: $20.99 (~$7/mo). 12 Months: $47.99 (~$4/mo). Premium adds image generation and a limited video generation allowance (5 free clips/month, extra via Neurons).1 Month: $19.99. 12 Months: $119.88 ($9.99/mo).

My take

Neither has a real free tier, so you are choosing on price and features from the start. JOI is the cheaper way in at $13.99/mo against $19.99/mo for OurDream.ai. The entry price is only part of it: image, voice and video are often metered on top, so the pricing notes row matters as much as the headline. OurDream.ai simply does more: nsfw chat, nsfw image generation and seductive voice messages are on its list and not on JOI's. More features is only better if you will use them. On adult content they are not the same product: OurDream.ai allows it on paid plans, JOI keeps a filter. Decide that first and half the comparison decides itself.

The numbers

The numbers
The numbersJOIOurDream.ai
Rank on this siteOn the combined data gathered for every site#19▲#16
Google US rank, “ai girlfriend”DataForSEO ranked keywords, September 2026––
Tranco rank, all domainsAll-traffic rank among the top million domains#31,348▲#11,457
Chrome UX tierGoogle Chrome UX ReportTop 50,000▲Top 10,000
Search visits a month, worldwideDataForSEO estimate34,016▲301,181
Search visits a month, US12,053▲98,433
Brand searches a month, USGoogle Ads data via DataForSEO33,100▲301,000
Domain RatingDomain Rating by Ahrefs, out of 10064▲71
Referring domains2,966▲4,127
Backlinks62,387▲184,582,893
Domain registeredJuly 2003November 2024
Public record I read10 videos, 1 Reddit threads, 6 articles16 videos, 9 Reddit threads, 11 articles

The better value in each row is marked in green. Search visits and brand searches are DataForSEO estimates; Tranco and Chrome UX tiers are ranks, not visit counts.

My take

None of these ranks in the tracked positions for "ai girlfriend", so their places on this site come from all-traffic rank, and their visitors arrive by name, by ads or from app stores rather than from the category search. On size, OurDream.ai is the busier site: 301,181 search visits a month worldwide, about 9 times what JOI gets (34,016). These are estimates of visits from Google only, so a site with apps or ads can be bigger than this shows. Brand searches are the loyalty line: 301,000 people a month type OurDream.ai's name, against 33,100 for JOI. A name people type on purpose is a site they come back to; a site with lots of visits and few brand searches is living on rankings it could lose. JOI is the older domain (2003 against 2024), which counts for something in a category where sites close without notice.

What users say, and what I found

Feature by feature
Feature by featureJOIOurDream.ai
Chat and roleplayUsers mixedMy test: AgreeUsers mixedMy test: Agree
Model switchingUsers positiveMy test: Agree–
MemoryUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagreeUsers positiveMy test: Agree
Images and Dream ClipsUsers mixedMy test: Agree–
VoiceUsers mixedMy test: DisagreeUsers mixedMy test: Agree
Characters and customisationUsers positiveMy test: Agree–
Free tierUsers negativeMy test: AgreeUsers negativeMy test: Disagree
Price and neuronsUsers negativeMy test: Agree–
Privacy and billingUsers mixedMy test: DisagreeUsers mixedMy test: Agree
Safety and legitimacyUsers mixed–
Image generation–Users positiveMy test: Agree
Video generation–Users mixedMy test: Partly disagree
Characters and creator community–Users positiveMy test: Agree
Price and Dream Coins–Users negativeMy test: Agree
Safety, legitimacy and apps–Users mixedMy test: Agree

“Users” is the balance of the YouTube reviews, Reddit threads and articles read for each brand page; “my test” is whether my own month on the site agreed with them.

My take

Users rate them about the same: 2 of 10 features positive for JOI and 3 of 10 features positive for OurDream.ai. OurDream.ai gets it on memory. Both get the same complaint on free tier, so that is a category problem rather than a reason to pick one over the other. My own month did not always match the crowd: I disagreed with users on 3 points for JOI and 2 points for OurDream.ai, and each disagreement is spelled out on the brand page.

My verdict on each

JOI logo

JOI

#19 on the ranking

Joi is the loudest newcomer in the category, and after a month with it the product is better than the marketing deserves.

Read my full JOI analysis →

Written by Hunter Gray, Founder, Owner & Writer. Every figure is from the two brand pages and refreshes monthly. JOI and OurDream.ai are two of the sites in my best AI girlfriend ranking, where the whole category is ordered on the same data.