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AI girlfriend sites side by side · Both tested first-hand · Data through September 2026

HeraHaven logovsKupid.ai logo

HeraHaven vs Kupid.ai

I bought a membership on both and tested each for a month. What they offer, their measured numbers and what their users say, next to each other, with my verdict on each at the end.

The scoreboard

Kupid.ai leads on 2 of the 4 figures that decide most choices.

HeraHaven logoKupid.ai logo
Rank on this site#42▲#3
Google US, “ai girlfriend”–#7
Search visits a month119K▲131K
Name searches a month, US5.4K5.4K

In short

Two sites of similar size; here is what separates them.

  • Kupid.ai ranks #7 in United States Google results for "ai girlfriend"; HeraHaven holds no tracked position for it, so it is placed by all-traffic rank instead (#3 against #42 on this site).
  • Kupid.ai gets about 131,142 search visits a month worldwide against 118,642 for HeraHaven (DataForSEO, September 2026).
  • HeraHaven has a free tier and paid plans from $19.95/mo; Kupid.ai has a free tier and paid plans from $17.99/mo.
  • Kupid.ai allows adult content on paid plans; HeraHaven filters or limits it.

What they offer

What they offer
What they offerHeraHavenKupid.ai
Free tier▲Yes▲Yes
Entry paid plan$19.95/mo$17.99/mo
Adult contentFiltered or limitedAllowed on paid plans
Features
  • Immersive AI chat with memory
  • NSFW capability
  • Image generation
  • Voice messaging
  • Live voice calls
  • Free tier access
  • Character creation
  • Crypto payments
  • NSFW content
  • Image generation
  • Voice messages
  • Live voice calls
  • Multi-session memory
  • Customizable voice options
  • Character creation
  • Crypto payments
Best forUsers who prioritize high-quality image generation and emotionally deep chat over live voice stabilityUsers seeking deep, text-based emotional connection with immersive visuals who can tolerate slower response times
Not forThose who need reliable live voice calling or responsive customer supportThose who prioritize real-time voice interaction or need responsive customer support
OperatorVilala LimitedSNB Technologies Limited
Pricing notes1 Month: $19.95. 12 Months: $79.80 (~$6.65/mo). Token purchases and cryptocurrency payments accepted.Plans are now monthly-only, starting around $17.99/mo (unlimited messages plus a set image/voice allowance) and scaling up through mid tiers to roughly $49.99/mo for unlimited images and voice plus video-generation coins. Cryptocurrency accepted. Coins/credits available for one-off feature purchases including video.

My take

Both give you a free tier, so you can try the chat on each before paying; expect message caps and few or no images until you upgrade. Kupid.ai is the cheaper way in at $17.99/mo against $19.95/mo for HeraHaven. The entry price is only part of it: image, voice and video are often metered on top, so the pricing notes row matters as much as the headline. On adult content they are not the same product: Kupid.ai allows it on paid plans, HeraHaven keeps a filter. Decide that first and half the comparison decides itself.

The numbers

The numbers
The numbersHeraHavenKupid.ai
Rank on this siteOn the combined data gathered for every site#42▲#3
Google US rank, “ai girlfriend”DataForSEO ranked keywords, September 2026–#7
Tranco rank, all domainsAll-traffic rank among the top million domains#405,892▲#254,630
Chrome UX tierGoogle Chrome UX ReportTop 500,000Top 500,000
Search visits a month, worldwideDataForSEO estimate118,642▲131,142
Search visits a month, US29,751▲31,822
Brand searches a month, USGoogle Ads data via DataForSEO5,4005,400
Domain RatingDomain Rating by Ahrefs, out of 10052▲73
Referring domains2,446▲3,424
Backlinks19,209▲437,714
Domain registeredJune 2024June 2023
Public record I read3 videos, 2 Reddit threads, 0 articles6 videos, 0 Reddit threads, 2 articles

The better value in each row is marked in green. Search visits and brand searches are DataForSEO estimates; Tranco and Chrome UX tiers are ranks, not visit counts.

My take

Start with the row this site ranks on. When someone types "ai girlfriend" into Google in the US, Kupid.ai is there at #7; HeraHaven does not appear in the tracked positions at all. That is why Kupid.ai sits higher here even if it is the smaller site: it is the one the category sends newcomers to. On size, Kupid.ai is the busier site: 131,142 search visits a month worldwide, about the same as HeraHaven gets (118,642). These are estimates of visits from Google only, so a site with apps or ads can be bigger than this shows. Kupid.ai's Domain Rating of 73 against 52 means far more sites link to it, which is what keeps rankings stable; the weaker link profile is the one more likely to move, up or down, when Google reshuffles. Kupid.ai is the older domain (2023 against 2024), which counts for something in a category where sites close without notice. In plain terms: Kupid.ai is both the bigger site and the one the category search points to.

What users say, and what I found

Feature by feature
Feature by featureHeraHavenKupid.ai
Chat and roleplayUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagreeUsers positiveMy test: Agree
MemoryUsers mixedMy test: AgreeUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagree
Image generationUsers positiveMy test: AgreeUsers mixedMy test: Agree
Voice messages and live callsUsers negativeMy test: Agree–
Companion builderUsers positiveMy test: Partly disagree–
Free tierUsers mixedMy test: AgreeUsers negativeMy test: Agree
Price and tokensUsers positiveMy test: Agree–
Customer supportUsers negativeMy test: Agree–
Privacy and billingUsers mixedMy test: Agree–
Legitimacy and accessUsers mixedMy test: Agree–
Voice–Users positiveMy test: Agree
Video–Users mixedMy test: Agree
Proactive messaging–Users mixedMy test: Partly disagree
Characters and customisation–Users positiveMy test: Agree
Price and billing–Users negativeMy test: Agree
Privacy and legitimacy–Users mixedMy test: Agree

“Users” is the balance of the YouTube reviews, Reddit threads and articles read for each brand page; “my test” is whether my own month on the site agreed with them.

My take

Users rate them about the same: 3 of 10 features positive for HeraHaven and 3 of 10 features positive for Kupid.ai. Where they split, HeraHaven gets the better word on image generation. Kupid.ai gets it on chat and roleplay. My own month did not always match the crowd: I disagreed with users on 2 points for HeraHaven and 2 points for Kupid.ai, and each disagreement is spelled out on the brand page.

My verdict on each

HeraHaven logo

HeraHaven

#42 on the ranking

HeraHaven makes the best images at the lowest annual price of any companion I have tested, and after a month with it I would still hesitate to recommend the company behind them.

Read my full HeraHaven analysis →
Kupid.ai logo

Kupid.ai

#3 on the ranking

Kupid AI has the best voice and one of the best conversations in the category, and the worst way of charging for them.

Read my full Kupid.ai analysis →

Written by Hunter Gray, Founder, Owner & Writer. Every figure is from the two brand pages and refreshes monthly. HeraHaven and Kupid.ai are two of the sites in my best AI girlfriend ranking, where the whole category is ordered on the same data.