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AI girlfriend sites side by side · Both tested first-hand · Data through September 2026

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Erogen vs HeraHaven

I bought a membership on both and tested each for a month. What they offer, their measured numbers and what their users say, next to each other, with my verdict on each at the end.

The scoreboard

HeraHaven leads on 3 of the 4 figures that decide most choices.

Erogen logoHeraHaven logo
Rank on this site#66▲#42
Google US, “ai girlfriend”––
Search visits a month103▲119K
Name searches a month, US2.4K▲5.4K

In short

HeraHaven is the bigger site; here is what separates them.

  • HeraHaven gets about 118,642 search visits a month worldwide against 103 for Erogen, roughly 1152 times as many (DataForSEO, September 2026).
  • People search for HeraHaven by name about 5,400 times a month in the US, against 2,400 for Erogen.
  • Erogen has a free tier and paid plans from Free; HeraHaven has a free tier and paid plans from $19.95/mo.
  • Erogen allows adult content on paid plans; HeraHaven filters or limits it.

What they offer

What they offer
What they offerErogenHeraHaven
Free tier▲Yes▲Yes
Entry paid planFree$19.95/mo
Adult contentAllowed on paid plansFiltered or limited
Features
  • NSFW scenario templates and frameworks
  • AI image generation (scenario-contextual)
  • Explicit roleplay chat
  • Cryptocurrency payments
  • Immersive AI chat with memory
  • NSFW capability
  • Image generation
  • Voice messaging
  • Live voice calls
  • Free tier access
  • Character creation
  • Crypto payments
Best forUsers wanting structured NSFW scenario roleplay with image generation and crypto billing privacyUsers who prioritize high-quality image generation and emotionally deep chat over live voice stability
Not forUsers seeking open-ended companion relationships, voice interaction, or mobile accessThose who need reliable live voice calling or responsive customer support
OperatorCorinth LLC (the terms name the company at a Sheridan, Wyoming registered-agent address, under Delaware law; no founders or office are disclosed)Vilala Limited
Pricing notesFree plan (600 messages/day, 5 monthly image credits), Silver at $15/month ($90/year), Platinum at $35/month ($210/year). Browser-based. Accepts cryptocurrency.1 Month: $19.95. 12 Months: $79.80 (~$6.65/mo). Token purchases and cryptocurrency payments accepted.

My take

Both give you a free tier, so you can try the chat on each before paying; expect message caps and few or no images until you upgrade. HeraHaven simply does more: immersive ai chat with memory, nsfw capability and image generation are on its list and not on Erogen's. More features is only better if you will use them. On adult content they are not the same product: Erogen allows it on paid plans, HeraHaven keeps a filter. Decide that first and half the comparison decides itself.

The numbers

The numbers
The numbersErogenHeraHaven
Rank on this siteOn the combined data gathered for every site#66▲#42
Google US rank, “ai girlfriend”DataForSEO ranked keywords, September 2026––
Tranco rank, all domainsAll-traffic rank among the top million domains#4,431,753▲#405,892
Chrome UX tierGoogle Chrome UX Report–Top 500,000
Search visits a month, worldwideDataForSEO estimate103▲118,642
Search visits a month, US56▲29,751
Brand searches a month, USGoogle Ads data via DataForSEO2,400▲5,400
Domain RatingDomain Rating by Ahrefs, out of 10029▲52
Referring domains557▲2,446
Backlinks3,445▲19,209
Domain registeredSeptember 2023June 2024
Public record I read0 videos, 3 Reddit threads, 0 articles3 videos, 2 Reddit threads, 0 articles

The better value in each row is marked in green. Search visits and brand searches are DataForSEO estimates; Tranco and Chrome UX tiers are ranks, not visit counts.

My take

None of these ranks in the tracked positions for "ai girlfriend", so their places on this site come from all-traffic rank, and their visitors arrive by name, by ads or from app stores rather than from the category search. On size, HeraHaven is the busier site: 118,642 search visits a month worldwide, more than 1150 times what Erogen gets (103). These are estimates of visits from Google only, so a site with apps or ads can be bigger than this shows. Brand searches are the loyalty line: 5,400 people a month type HeraHaven's name, against 2,400 for Erogen. A name people type on purpose is a site they come back to; a site with lots of visits and few brand searches is living on rankings it could lose. HeraHaven's Domain Rating of 52 against 29 means far more sites link to it, which is what keeps rankings stable; the weaker link profile is the one more likely to move, up or down, when Google reshuffles. Erogen is the older domain (2023 against 2024), which counts for something in a category where sites close without notice.

What users say, and what I found

Feature by feature
Feature by featureErogenHeraHaven
Chat and roleplayUsers positiveMy test: AgreeUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagree
MemoryUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagreeUsers mixedMy test: Agree
Image generationUsers mixedMy test: AgreeUsers positiveMy test: Agree
Voice and callsUsers mixedMy test: Agree–
Characters and customisationUsers positiveMy test: Agree–
Free tierUsers positiveMy test: AgreeUsers mixedMy test: Agree
Price and creditsUsers mixedMy test: Agree–
Privacy and billingUsers mixedMy test: AgreeUsers mixedMy test: Agree
Safety and legitimacyUsers mixedMy test: Agree–
SupportUsers negativeMy test: Disagree–
Voice messages and live calls–Users negativeMy test: Agree
Companion builder–Users positiveMy test: Partly disagree
Price and tokens–Users positiveMy test: Agree
Customer support–Users negativeMy test: Agree
Legitimacy and access–Users mixedMy test: Agree

“Users” is the balance of the YouTube reviews, Reddit threads and articles read for each brand page; “my test” is whether my own month on the site agreed with them.

My take

Users rate them about the same: 3 of 10 features positive for Erogen and 3 of 10 features positive for HeraHaven. Where they split, Erogen gets the better word on chat and roleplay and free tier. HeraHaven gets it on image generation. My own month did not always match the crowd: I disagreed with users on 2 points for Erogen and 2 points for HeraHaven, and each disagreement is spelled out on the brand page.

My verdict on each

Erogen logo

Erogen

#66 on the ranking

Erogen is a tidy scenario-roleplay site with the most generous free chat allowance in the category, and almost nobody talking about it.

Read my full Erogen analysis →
HeraHaven logo

HeraHaven

#42 on the ranking

HeraHaven makes the best images at the lowest annual price of any companion I have tested, and after a month with it I would still hesitate to recommend the company behind them.

Read my full HeraHaven analysis →

Written by Hunter Gray, Founder, Owner & Writer. Every figure is from the two brand pages and refreshes monthly. Erogen and HeraHaven are two of the sites in my best AI girlfriend ranking, where the whole category is ordered on the same data.