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AI girlfriend sites side by side · Both tested first-hand · Data through September 2026

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HeraHaven vs OurDream.ai

I bought a membership on both and tested each for a month. What they offer, their measured numbers and what their users say, next to each other, with my verdict on each at the end.

The scoreboard

OurDream.ai leads on 3 of the 4 figures that decide most choices.

HeraHaven logoOurDream.ai logo
Rank on this site#42▲#16
Google US, “ai girlfriend”––
Search visits a month119K▲301K
Name searches a month, US5.4K▲301K

In short

OurDream.ai is the bigger site; here is what separates them.

  • OurDream.ai gets about 301,181 search visits a month worldwide against 118,642 for HeraHaven, roughly 2.5 times as many (DataForSEO, September 2026).
  • People search for OurDream.ai by name about 301,000 times a month in the US, against 5,400 for HeraHaven.
  • HeraHaven has a free tier and paid plans from $19.95/mo; OurDream.ai has no free tier and starts at $19.99/mo.
  • OurDream.ai allows adult content on paid plans; HeraHaven filters or limits it.

What they offer

What they offer
What they offerHeraHavenOurDream.ai
Free tier▲YesNo
Entry paid plan$19.95/mo$19.99/mo
Adult contentFiltered or limitedAllowed on paid plans
Features
  • Immersive AI chat with memory
  • NSFW capability
  • Image generation
  • Voice messaging
  • Live voice calls
  • Free tier access
  • Character creation
  • Crypto payments
  • NSFW chat
  • NSFW image generation
  • Seductive voice messages
  • Anime and realistic styles
  • Character customization
  • Browser-based (no app needed)
  • Discord community
Best forUsers who prioritize high-quality image generation and emotionally deep chat over live voice stabilityUsers wanting seductive voice messages, high-quality NSFW images and chat, and both anime and realistic styles via browser without login gates
Not forThose who need reliable live voice calling or responsive customer supportThose needing live voice or video calls, crypto billing, or a free trial
OperatorVilala LimitedDream Studio USA, Inc. and TEKTOPIA LTD (Cyprus); the iOS app is published by Mindbots LLC
Pricing notes1 Month: $19.95. 12 Months: $79.80 (~$6.65/mo). Token purchases and cryptocurrency payments accepted.1 Month: $19.99. 12 Months: $119.88 ($9.99/mo).

My take

If you want to try before you pay, HeraHaven lets you: OurDream.ai asks for a card first. A free tier is a sampler, not a plan, but it tells you whether the chat suits you before money moves. HeraHaven is the cheaper way in at $19.95/mo against $19.99/mo for OurDream.ai. The entry price is only part of it: image, voice and video are often metered on top, so the pricing notes row matters as much as the headline. On adult content they are not the same product: OurDream.ai allows it on paid plans, HeraHaven keeps a filter. Decide that first and half the comparison decides itself.

The numbers

The numbers
The numbersHeraHavenOurDream.ai
Rank on this siteOn the combined data gathered for every site#42▲#16
Google US rank, “ai girlfriend”DataForSEO ranked keywords, September 2026––
Tranco rank, all domainsAll-traffic rank among the top million domains#405,892▲#11,457
Chrome UX tierGoogle Chrome UX ReportTop 500,000▲Top 10,000
Search visits a month, worldwideDataForSEO estimate118,642▲301,181
Search visits a month, US29,751▲98,433
Brand searches a month, USGoogle Ads data via DataForSEO5,400▲301,000
Domain RatingDomain Rating by Ahrefs, out of 10052▲71
Referring domains2,446▲4,127
Backlinks19,209▲184,582,893
Domain registeredJune 2024November 2024
Public record I read3 videos, 2 Reddit threads, 0 articles16 videos, 9 Reddit threads, 11 articles

The better value in each row is marked in green. Search visits and brand searches are DataForSEO estimates; Tranco and Chrome UX tiers are ranks, not visit counts.

My take

None of these ranks in the tracked positions for "ai girlfriend", so their places on this site come from all-traffic rank, and their visitors arrive by name, by ads or from app stores rather than from the category search. On size, OurDream.ai is the busier site: 301,181 search visits a month worldwide, about three times what HeraHaven gets (118,642). These are estimates of visits from Google only, so a site with apps or ads can be bigger than this shows. Brand searches are the loyalty line: 301,000 people a month type OurDream.ai's name, against 5,400 for HeraHaven. A name people type on purpose is a site they come back to; a site with lots of visits and few brand searches is living on rankings it could lose. OurDream.ai's Domain Rating of 71 against 52 means far more sites link to it, which is what keeps rankings stable; the weaker link profile is the one more likely to move, up or down, when Google reshuffles.

What users say, and what I found

Feature by feature
Feature by featureHeraHavenOurDream.ai
Chat and roleplayUsers mixedMy test: Partly disagreeUsers mixedMy test: Agree
MemoryUsers mixedMy test: AgreeUsers positiveMy test: Agree
Image generationUsers positiveMy test: AgreeUsers positiveMy test: Agree
Voice messages and live callsUsers negativeMy test: Agree–
Companion builderUsers positiveMy test: Partly disagree–
Free tierUsers mixedMy test: AgreeUsers negativeMy test: Disagree
Price and tokensUsers positiveMy test: Agree–
Customer supportUsers negativeMy test: Agree–
Privacy and billingUsers mixedMy test: AgreeUsers mixedMy test: Agree
Legitimacy and accessUsers mixedMy test: Agree–
Video generation–Users mixedMy test: Partly disagree
Voice–Users mixedMy test: Agree
Characters and creator community–Users positiveMy test: Agree
Price and Dream Coins–Users negativeMy test: Agree
Safety, legitimacy and apps–Users mixedMy test: Agree

“Users” is the balance of the YouTube reviews, Reddit threads and articles read for each brand page; “my test” is whether my own month on the site agreed with them.

My take

Users rate them about the same: 3 of 10 features positive for HeraHaven and 3 of 10 features positive for OurDream.ai. OurDream.ai gets it on memory. My own month did not always match the crowd: I disagreed with users on 2 points for HeraHaven and 2 points for OurDream.ai, and each disagreement is spelled out on the brand page.

My verdict on each

HeraHaven logo

HeraHaven

#42 on the ranking

HeraHaven makes the best images at the lowest annual price of any companion I have tested, and after a month with it I would still hesitate to recommend the company behind them.

Read my full HeraHaven analysis →

Written by Hunter Gray, Founder, Owner & Writer. Every figure is from the two brand pages and refreshes monthly. HeraHaven and OurDream.ai are two of the sites in my best AI girlfriend ranking, where the whole category is ordered on the same data.